This actually exactly what I need and I really appreciate the time you spent on my site carefully picking through things.
Alot of what you said is going on my list for today :) Including the images being blurry that was a newb mistake and I should have immediately fixed them.
As for the code bit for the header I am actually not sure why its doing what its doing because when I view my header.php file that is drawing from there are no issue like shown below (I will dig into this a bit farther, but if you think you might know whats wrong please let me know).
I also agree that it can be a little confusing as to what the site is for and I never thought about that until you mentioned it actually.
We are working on making the site pop today too, we could easily do this with a white site but some of the same tricks and ideas don’t apply to a dark site. So, we will try to think of some ideas today.
Again thanks for the very good feedback… All in all I have spent 3 weeks doing the code and graphics for the site, with no former experience in WordPress, Css, or HTML, while working a regular job. I def. didn’t take anything negative only positive.